Tamra Judge faces intense backlash from Real Housewives of Orange County fans after her controversial claims of being on the autism spectrum, which she later retracted during an emotional therapy session, leading viewers to question the authenticity of her tears and sincerity amid ongoing family struggles.

 

RHOC fans call out Tamra Judge for falsely claiming to have autism and for crocodile  tears during therapy sessions | Daily Mail Online

 

In a dramatic start to the 19th season of The Real Housewives of Orange County, reality star Tamra Judge found herself at the center of controversy as fans reacted strongly to her claims of being on the autism spectrum.

The uproar began during the season premiere, which aired on July 10, 2025, when Tamra, 57, met with her therapist, Dr. Mcayla Sarno, and broke down in tears discussing her struggles.

The controversy traces back to October 2024, when Tamra revealed on her podcast, Two T’s in a Pod, that she had autism, stating, “I just did my first therapy session. I am on the spectrum.”

However, after facing significant backlash online, she later walked back her statement, which only fueled further criticism from fans who accused her of insensitivity and dishonesty.

 

RHOC fans call out Tamra Judge for falsely claiming to have autism and for crocodile  tears during therapy sessions | Daily Mail Online

 

During the therapy session featured in the premiere, Tamra appeared visibly emotional as she discussed “talking about stuff that I don’t wanna talk about.”

Many viewers expressed skepticism about her tears, labeling them “fake” and accusing her of using the therapy session for damage control after her earlier autism claims.

One fan tweeted, “LMAOOOOO she’s doing damage control for calling herself autistic like SIX MONTHS LATER holy s**t.”

As the session progressed, Tamra admitted, “I know when you mentioned that to me, I had gone home and went on my podcast and I misspoke. I shouldn’t have said anything.” She expressed the hurt she felt from public criticism, saying, “I just got annihilated, you know, publicly annihilated.

I had a really s*****y last year.” Her emotional state was further exacerbated when the conversation turned to her daughter, Sidney, whom she described as having “never even really given me a chance.”

The reality star lamented that she was afraid to get close to people, fearing they would turn on her.

 

Tamra Judge discovers she's on autism spectrum during therapy

 

Dr. Sarno addressed Tamra’s “unprocessed trauma,” suggesting that while it’s difficult to determine if she is on the spectrum without a formal assessment, her past experiences might affect her behavior.

Tamra’s confession about her struggles with impulsivity and emotional responses was juxtaposed with footage of her past explosive behavior, leading many fans to question the authenticity of her claims.

Critics on social media were quick to voice their opinions, with some suggesting that Tamra’s therapy session was merely a performance.

One user remarked, “Who is this fake therapist not telling this monster that she’s a narcissist soul sucker?” Another added, “Are we going to witness Tamra cry trying to make people sorry for her then lash out and stir up sh*t every episode? I’ll answer: yes.”

 

Tamra Judge Gets Emotional During Honest Therapy Session - Reality Tea

 

The episode also introduced a unique twist for the season, as the Housewives were shown hooked up to lie detectors, presumably to uncover the truth about various ongoing dramas. This revelation hints at an explosive season ahead, filled with confrontations and revelations.

As the premiere unfolded, viewers were treated to more than just Tamra’s emotional turmoil. Emily, another cast member, revealed that her 10-year-old son, Luke, diagnosed with avoidant restrictive food intake disorder (ARFID), might be linked to autism, prompting further discussions about mental health and family dynamics within the group.

 

Tamra Judge Opens Up About Backlash After Being Told She's 'on the Spectrum'

 

With the season just beginning, fans are left wondering how Tamra’s claims and the ensuing controversy will play out. Will she be able to navigate the backlash and find genuine support in her therapy journey, or will the drama continue to escalate among the Housewives? As the season progresses, the audience is eager to see how these complex relationships unfold amidst the chaos of reality television. The drama continues every Thursday night at 9 PM ET on Bravo.