Cher opens up about her turbulent marriage and bitter divorce from Sonny Bono, revealing years of control, infidelity, and a fierce fight for independence.

 

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In a stunning revelation, pop icon Cher has finally opened up about the real reason behind her tumultuous divorce from music legend Sonny Bono.

At 78, Cher reflects on the complexities of their relationship, which captivated audiences worldwide but ultimately unraveled under the weight of fame, betrayal, and control.

Once the beloved duo behind chart-topping hits like “I Got You Babe,” Cher and Sonny’s love story was marked by undeniable chemistry and a whirlwind romance.

However, as Cher recounts, their soaring fame hid deep-seated tensions that would ultimately lead to her life-changing decision to walk away.

“It was a chaotic time,” Cher recalls, her voice tinged with nostalgia. “We were young, ambitious, and in love, but the pressures of our careers and Sonny’s controlling nature began to take a toll.”

Their journey began in 1964 when a young Cher, then known as Cherylyn Sarkeesian, crossed paths with Sonny Bono, a seasoned music industry player.

Despite their age difference, an undeniable connection formed. “Sonny offered me stability when I had nowhere to go,” Cher remembers. “But that stability soon turned into a cage.”

 

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As their partnership blossomed, Cher’s talent as a singer emerged. Sonny, recognizing her potential, encouraged her to step into the spotlight, but Cher’s overwhelming stage fright made that nearly impossible.

“I was terrified,” she admits. “Sonny was my rock, but as I grew, so did my desire for independence.”

The couple’s rise to fame was meteoric, with their unique blend of love, music, and charisma winning over millions. Yet, behind the scenes, their marriage was fraught with difficulties.

Cher struggled with Sonny’s infidelities and controlling behavior, feeling increasingly trapped in a relationship that had once provided her with comfort.

“I idolized Sonny,” Cher confesses. “But as time went on, I realized I was losing myself. I needed to break free.”

Despite the challenges, they expanded their careers into acting, becoming a Las Vegas sensation and launching the hit television show “The Sonny & Cher Comedy Hour.”

Each episode ended with a heartfelt performance of “I Got You Babe,” masking the turmoil brewing beneath the surface.

But as their professional partnership thrived, their personal lives began to unravel. Cher’s rising stardom upset the delicate balance of their relationship, and Sonny’s controlling nature became suffocating. “I felt invisible,” Cher recalls. “I was just a tool for his success.”

 

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In February 1974, after years of feeling stifled, Cher initiated their separation, citing Sonny’s controlling behavior and her desire for independence. “I couldn’t take it anymore,” she says. “I had to reclaim my life.”

The divorce proceedings were anything but amicable, with both parties fighting bitterly over finances and custody of their daughter, Chastity Bono.

Cher accused Sonny of financial mismanagement, claiming he had taken advantage of her trust. “It was a brutal battle,” she reflects. “But I knew I had to stand my ground.”

Despite the bitterness of their divorce, Cher’s relationship with Sonny remained complex. “No matter how angry I got, it was hard to stay mad at him for long,” she admits.

Yet the divorce left her in a difficult financial position, forced to pay Sonny an additional $2 million due to contractual obligations.

“I learned a hard lesson about protecting my own interests,” Cher says. “I had been so focused on our partnership that I neglected my own career.”

As Cher moved forward, she quickly entered a whirlwind romance with rock musician Greg Allman, marrying him just three days after finalizing her divorce from Sonny. “It was a crazy time,” she laughs. “But I was determined to prove I could stand on my own.”

However, her marriage to Allman was fraught with its own challenges, marked by substance abuse issues and dramatic separations. “It was a passionate but turbulent relationship,” Cher admits. “I had to make tough decisions for my child’s well-being.”

 

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Despite the chaos, Cher’s resilience shone through. She launched her self-titled television show, proving to the world that she could thrive without Sonny. “I wanted to show everyone that I was more than just his partner,” she asserts.

Cher’s journey was not without setbacks; her music career faced challenges, and she even grappled with a significant health crisis in 1987. Yet, she persevered, earning critical acclaim for her acting in films like “Moonstruck,” which garnered her an Academy Award.

“I refused to let anyone define my potential,” she declares. “I was determined to keep creating and inspiring.”

In the years following their divorce, Cher and Sonny’s paths diverged significantly. While Cher continued to thrive in both music and acting, Sonny ventured into politics, ultimately serving in the U.S. House of Representatives.

Tragically, his life was cut short in a skiing accident in 1998.

“I was devastated,” Cher recalls, her eyes welling with emotion. “Despite everything, he was a singular force in my life. I never expected to feel such a deep loss.”

Cher delivered a heartfelt eulogy at Sonny’s funeral, reflecting on their complex relationship. “We shared a bond that was unique and unforgettable,” she said. “Even after our divorce, I continued to think of him in the present tense.”

 

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Now, decades later, Cher finds herself embroiled in a new legal battle over royalties from their iconic music catalog, reigniting old tensions. She has accused Sonny’s widow, Mary Bono, of withholding payments, prompting her to sue for at least $1 million.

“This is about more than just money,” Cher insists. “It’s about honoring our shared legacy and ensuring that my contributions are recognized.”

In a decisive ruling, a federal judge sided with Cher, reaffirming her entitlement to her 50% share of royalties. “It’s a victory for me, but more importantly, it’s a recognition of the hard work and talent that went into our partnership,” she states.

As Cher prepares to release her memoir, she reflects on her extraordinary journey, filled with triumphs and challenges. “I’ve come a long way, but my story is far from finished,” she promises. “I will continue to create, perform, and inspire for as long as I can.”

With her trademark humor and unyielding determination, Cher remains a force to be reckoned with, proving that even in the face of adversity, the spirit of resilience can shine through.

“It was easier to get divorced than to make it into the Hall of Fame,” she quips, reminding us all of the power of perseverance and the importance of never giving up.