“That’s what broke up his first marriage”: Not Every Friend of Kevin Costner Supports Him Turning Into a Playboy After Yellowstone and Horizon Disaster

It seems Kevin Costner, who’s synonymous with the rugged, tough-as-nails cowboy in Yellowstone, has now embraced the wild side of life.

You can’t outrun your past, but you can definitely try to outlive it. This sentiment is oddly fitting when you think about Kevin Costner.

The actor, 70, is no stranger to fame, heartbreak, and reinvention.

But now, following the end of two marriages and his exit from Yellowstone, he is reportedly back on the radar for reasons beyond his usual cowboy charm.

Word on the street is that after his divorce from Christine Baumgartner, Costner has found himself entwined in some flirtatious fun with none other than Jennifer Lopez.

While this sounds like a fairy tale for some, not everyone is clapping their hands in approval.

Kevin Costner in Yellowstone / Credits: Paramount Network.

Is the 70-year-old actor just embracing some much-needed freedom after a series of personal setbacks, or has he truly morphed into the Hollywood playboy of his youth?

Maybe he’s not the first star to walk this line, but it’s worth asking—should we cheer him on or be a little concerned? Let’s dive in.

Kevin Costner’s ego boost and flirtations with Jennifer Lopez

We recently learned from Radar Online that  Kevin Costner has been getting a significant ego boost these days—no shocker there, considering he’s been rubbing elbows with none other than Jennifer Lopez.

After both stars ended their respective marriages, the two started exchanging playful conversations, leading to some flirtatious banter at star-studded events.

As sources close to the actor tell it, this newfound attention is fueling his confidence.

His flirtation with J.Lo still gives him a buzz.

It’s given him the confidence to get out there and date up a storm.

Kevin Costner in Yellowstone | image: Paramount.

It seems Costner, now in his 70s, is more than ready to embrace life as a free agent.

But some friends—especially those who’ve been around for his past romances—are a bit skeptical.

His “player” antics in the past didn’t exactly end well.

According to one source, “Kevin was quite the Hollywood player early in his career.

That’s what broke up his first marriage,” referencing his fling with Michelle Amaral while filming Waterworld.

But wait—Costner’s friends, despite joking around about his “playboy” status, believe he deserves a break.

They understand the weight he’s carried recently, from his messy divorce to the fallout over his departure from Yellowstone and the flop of Horizon.

“He deserves to have some fun” after whatever he’s been through these last couple of years, one friend remarked.

Still, despite the go-ahead from his inner circle, there’s a lingering question: Is Costner truly embracing a new chapter, or is he running away from the emotional chaos that has surrounded him?

Is Kevin Costner playing with fire? Is he seeking fun, freedom, or a fresh start?

At 70, Kevin Costner certainly isn’t slowing down.

Radar Online sources claim he’s “in pretty good shape for his age and attracts the ladies, even the famous ones.”.

Jennifer Lopez in Good Morning America | image: ABC.

His physical appearance and charm haven’t faded, and now he seems determined to soak up the attention, especially from starlets like Jennifer Lopez.

But, there’s something bittersweet about seeing a man like Kevin Costner—the guy who once portrayed a family man and hero in Field of Dreams—now trying to shed those layers and flirt his way through life.

The worry from his friends is understandable.

His previous romances, notably his first marriage to Cindy Costner, ended badly due to his alleged wandering eyes.

The same pattern seems to be creeping up once again.

A source even said:

His friends like to rib him about it but agree he deserves a bit of fun after the hell he’s been through.

Kevin Costner seems to be clearly seeking something—whether it’s validation, freedom, or simply a good time.

With J.Lo adding some spark to his ego and the world watching his every move, the question remains: Is he trying to truly rediscover himself, or is he simply dancing away from the bigger, unresolved issues in his life?.