Pope Leo XIV, born Robert Francis Prevost, had never sought the papacy. A man of quiet service shaped by years in Peru and a humble upbringing in Chicago, he found himself unexpectedly chosen to lead the Catholic Church. Yet, beneath the white vestments and papal ring, he wrestled with doubt and insecurity. Was he truly worthy? Had he been selected by God’s will or by human politics? The shadow of Cardinal Luis Antonio Tegel, the Archbishop of Manila and a widely admired papal contender, loomed large.

Their relationship was complex—rooted in respect but tinged with rivalry. Both men understood the weight of their callings and the expectations placed upon them. But it was a private meeting between them that would become a turning point.

In the quiet of the Vatican chambers, Cardinal Tegel spoke gently but firmly to Pope Leo XIV. “I have been praying for you,” he began. “The Lord has chosen you. We must trust in His plan.” Yet Leo’s heart was heavy with self-doubt. “Why me?” he asked, voice trembling. “The weight is heavier than I imagined.”

Tegel leaned forward, his eyes soft but piercing. “What drives you, Leo? Is it service to the Church or a desire for power and recognition? True leadership comes not from ambition but from laying aside our egos to serve as Christ did.”

Leo’s defenses faltered. The question struck at the core of his soul. “I never sought power,” he confessed. “But I must lead, whether ready or not.”

Tegel’s words cut deeper. “Leadership is not about being seen as worthy. It is about humility and selfless service. Jesus did not seek to rule; He offered His life. Who are we to compete for a place of service?”

The room grew still. The tension dissolved as Leo’s eyes welled with tears—a release of the struggle that had burdened him. He realized the papacy was not a throne to claim but a cross to bear. The desire for validation gave way to surrender.

“True leadership,” Tegel said softly, “is to put others first, to humble oneself as Christ humbled Himself.”

Leo nodded, tears streaming down his face. The weight lifted. Peace flooded his heart. His purpose was no longer proving himself but embodying Christ’s love and humility.

This moment, raw and profound, reshaped Pope Leo XIV’s vision. From then on, he would lead not from ambition but from grace, not for glory but for service.

Cardinal Tegel remained silent, his presence a steady beacon of faith and wisdom. No words were needed. The lesson was learned.

The encounter was a testament to the power of humility, the courage to face one’s fears, and the transformative grace that comes from surrendering to God’s will.

For Pope Leo XIV, it was the beginning of a papacy defined by service, compassion, and authentic leadership—an example for all who carry burdens beyond their strength.