Meghan Markle and Prince Harry’s relationship has been a whirlwind of romance, controversy, and public scrutiny.

 

According to royal biographer Tom Bower, the couple’s 2018 wedding was not just a celebration of love but also a clear indication of their ambitions and intentions regarding the royal family.

 

Bower’s insights suggest that from the very beginning, Meghan had her sights set on a different life—one far removed from the constraints of royal duties.

 

The Wedding Guest List: A Telling Sign

 

Prince Harry and Meghan Markle at the 2024 ESPY Awards.

 

In a recent episode of The Sun’s Royal Exclusive, Tom Bower pointed out that the guest list for Meghan and Harry’s wedding was a telling sign of their true ambitions.

 

He argued that Meghan’s choice of guests revealed her desire to become a star in Hollywood rather than a committed royal.

 

Bower stated, “We know now in hindsight that Meghan never really intended to stay. Her guest list to her wedding showed her real ambition.”

 

Star-Studded Attendees

 

Prince Harry and Tom Inskip at a wedding.

 

The wedding, attended by approximately 250 guests, included a plethora of celebrities, such as Serena Williams, Carey Mulligan, and the cast of Suits.

 

Interestingly, some of Prince Harry’s long-time friends were notably absent from the evening festivities.

 

This selective guest list has led to speculation that Meghan and Harry were consciously curating their future relationships, prioritizing fame over familial ties.

 

Notable Absences: A Message Sent?

 

One of the most striking omissions from the evening reception was Harry’s childhood friend, Tom “Skippy” Inskip.

 

Inskip reportedly questioned Harry’s relationship with Meghan, which may have contributed to his exclusion.

 

Bower claims that this was a clear signal that Harry and Meghan were ready to redefine their social circles, stating, “The evening guest list was the prince and his bride’s way of saying ‘these are the people we want in our lives moving forward.’”

 

The Impact on the Royal Family

 

The Prince and Princess of Wales and the Duke and Duchess of Sussex walking together at Windsor Castle.

 

Tom Bower further elaborated on the consequences of Meghan and Harry’s actions, suggesting they have had a “hugely negative impact on the royal family.”

 

He believes that the damage inflicted is both “everlasting” and ongoing.

 

Bower noted that despite the royal family’s attempts to embrace Meghan, they could never fully integrate her into their world, stating, “The tragedy is that they tried terribly hard to help Meghan.”

 

Royal Family’s Support for Meghan

 

Upon marrying Harry, Meghan received significant support from the royal family, including Charles escorting her down the aisle and the Queen assigning numerous aides to help her adapt to royal life.

 

Despite these efforts, Bower suggests that Meghan’s ambitions always lay elsewhere, hinting at a premeditated plan to distance herself from royal obligations.

 

Harry’s Struggles with Royal Duties

Since stepping back from royal duties in 2020, Meghan and Harry have made headlines for their candid critiques of the royal family.

Their revelations during the Oprah Winfrey interview and their Netflix documentary have further fueled speculation about their motivations.

Harry himself has expressed a desire for accountability and reconciliation with his family, stating, “I don’t think that we can ever have peace with my family unless the truth is out there.”

Public Reactions and Speculations

 

Prince Harry and Meghan Markle at the 2024 ESPY Awards.

 

The couple’s actions have elicited mixed reactions from the public.

 

While some support their quest for independence, others view their decisions as a betrayal of royal traditions.

 

The stark contrast between their glamorous Hollywood lifestyle and the solemnity of royal duties has led many to question their commitment to the monarchy.

 

A Future Away from the Royals

 

As Meghan and Harry continue to carve out their niche in California, they maintain a complex relationship with the royal family.

 

Despite their physical distance, the emotional and familial ties remain tangled.

 

Harry’s return visits to the UK have been limited, often coinciding with significant family events, such as funerals.

 

Conclusion: The Legacy of Meghan and Harry

 

The narrative surrounding Meghan Markle and Prince Harry is far from straightforward.

 

While their wedding initially appeared to be a fairytale union, expert opinions like Tom Bower’s suggest that deeper ambitions were at play.

As they navigate their new lives, the impact of their choices on the royal family and their own future remains to be seen.

 

With ongoing public interest and scrutiny, Meghan and Harry’s story continues to unfold, leaving many to ponder their true intentions and the legacy they will leave behind.