💰💑“I’d Rather Spend My Money on Me”: John Cena’s Cold but Honest Truth About Why He Refuses to Be a Father

 

John Cena has built an empire on his back — literally and figuratively.

From dominating the WWE ring with impossible strength and unmatched charisma, to carving out a Hollywood career that rivals some of the industry’s biggest names, he’s become a man who seemingly has it all.

But what he doesn’t have — and refuses to have — is children.

And now, at 47 years old, he’s gone public with the reasons why.

The statements are honest, bold, and — to some — brutally selfish.

But to others, they’re refreshing, empowering, and even courageous.

“My wife and I have decided that we’re not going to have any children.

We want to enjoy our lives, and having children would distract us,” Cena said in a candid interview that’s now gone viral.

No metaphors.

No soft wording.

Just raw, unapologetic honesty.

And while his words may sting for those who believe in family-first values, Cena isn’t trying to win approval anymore.

He’s drawing a line in the sand.

What stunned fans most wasn’t just the decision — but the calm conviction in his tone.

Cena’s marriage to Shay Shariatzadeh, now over four years strong, was built on this very agreement.

They knew from the beginning that children would never be part of their future, and that’s exactly how they wanted it.

“It’s perfectly fine for people to want kids,” he explained.

“But my wife and I aren’t ready to take on that responsibility.

I want to enjoy my life and be happy without the demands of raising children.

And then he said the words that detonated like a bomb across social media:

“We don’t worry about school drop-offs, making breakfast for kids, or staying home to parent when it’s our time to enjoy life.

In that one sentence, Cena exposed a truth few celebrities dare say out loud — that parenthood, for all its joy and meaning, is also a sacrifice.

One he’s unwilling to make.

Not now.

Not ever.

For years, fans speculated whether Cena’s resistance to fatherhood was the real reason behind his split from ex-fiancée Nikki Bella.

She was open about wanting children.

He was clear he didn’t.

And in the end, that difference tore them apart.

At the time, many viewed Cena’s stance as cold or even manipulative.

But now, it’s clear: this isn’t a phase or a fear.

It’s a deeply held belief.

“Everyone has the right to choose what they want in life,” he said.

“And for me, it’s a happy marriage without children.

But this isn’t just about choosing not to be a father.

It’s about choosing himself.

Sources close to Cena say he’s obsessed with productivity, routine, and structure.

He wakes up before dawn, hits the gym with military precision, and plans every hour of his day.

Children — with their chaos, unpredictability, and emotional demands — don’t fit into that world.

“He likes his silence.

He likes his freedom.

And more than anything, he likes knowing his time is his own,” one insider revealed.

“He doesn’t want to give up control, even for a child.

And he’s not shy about it.

In fact, Cena seems to revel in the clarity of his decision.

“I want to enjoy my money without having to think of any children,” he said flatly.

“I’m not ready to put another person’s happiness ahead of my own.

That one sentence has drawn both applause — and outrage.

Critics have slammed him online, calling him “narcissistic,” “self-centered,” and even “emotionally stunted.

” They argue that someone with Cena’s resources and stability could offer a child an incredible life — and that choosing not to is a missed opportunity.

But others see him as a hero for saying what so many people think — but are too afraid to admit.

“I respect him more for being honest than I do most people for pretending to be perfect parents,” one fan wrote.

“He knows what he wants.

That’s more than most can say.

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The backlash hasn’t shaken Cena one bit.

In fact, he addressed it head-on:

“That is our decision, and I hope people can respect it — and mind their own business.

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That line — sharp, firm, and unflinching — is vintage Cena.

But it also reveals something deeper: a man who’s spent his whole life living under the spotlight, now finally claiming control of the only thing left: his personal peace.

The bigger question now isn’t why Cena doesn’t want kids.

It’s why the world is so shocked that someone could openly reject one of life’s oldest expectations.

In a culture that often pressures couples — especially women — into viewing children as the ultimate fulfillment, Cena’s defiance is radical.

Especially coming from a man.

Especially coming from this man.

He’s not reckless.

He’s not irresponsible.

He’s not bitter.

He’s simply a man who knows himself — and is brave enough to say it out loud.

For John Cena, happiness doesn’t look like lullabies, school plays, or college funds.

It looks like a quiet morning workout.

A dinner with his wife.

A life lived entirely on his own terms.

And in a world that rewards people for pretending to want what everyone else has, maybe the boldest move of all is saying:

“No.

I’m already happy.

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